We're sure you've heard the term "sugar baby" before, but what exactly does "sugar baby" mean?Is it safe?How they protect themselves from any potential danger as a "sugar baby".What does a sugar daddy look like?This is a woman talking about her experience as a "sugar baby."
The 20-year-old "sugar baby" answered some gossipy questions from other users.Obviously, this is not to say that all sugar daddies and sugar babies do this.But that's what she went through as a sugar baby.Here are 10 questions that we hope will be helpful to any girl who wants to be sugar Baby.Here's what Jess reveals about working with Sugar Daddy...
1.IS THERE AN EMOTIONAL COMPONENT TO HAVING SUGAR DADDIES? DO YOU EVER FIND YOURSELF IN A SITUATION WHERE YOU MIGHT GET TOO ATTACHED?
"Most sugar daddies want their sugar babies to be attracted to them, so even if I'm not emotionally or physically attracted to them, I still have to pretend to be attracted to them to some extent."So far, I haven't come across a situation where I'm too dependent on a sugar daddy, except in a friendly way, because not all dads have pimp personalities.However, I did have a sweet girl friend who had a sweet daddy/sweet girl relationship with a married man and ended up having a real relationship with that man.She confessed her feelings to him, he rejected her, and she was completely heartbroken.So personally, I'm not that attached to Sugar Daddy, and I'm very rational.I know exactly what I want and I don't put myself in that situation.Especially after knowing what happened to my friend, I was more vigilant, constantly reminding myself not to fall in love with Sugar Daddy.It's hard for many Sugar babies to stay alert at all times.You never know when you've become attached to Sugar Daddy, especially when you're dating, and it's hard not to be attracted to Sugar Daddy."
2.HOW MUCH PHYSICAL CONTACT DO YOU USUALLY HAVE WITH SUGAR DADDIES?
"It depends on the needs of different Sugar Daddy and how much they're willing to pay.In general, however, I usually think of dad wanting a relationship as wanting a paid girlfriend.Depending on the atmosphere, it will transition from holding hands and hugging to something more mature.However, before I go out on a date, I always try to find out what they want so That I don't get caught off guard.On the first date, I won't stay overnight.It's different every time, and I don't know what to expect from every Sugar Daddy I encounter.Most dads do want "mature" things that will eventually, if not immediately, have the most intimate contact with you.So before starting a sugar dating relationship, Sugar babies need to find out what dads want and what your bottom line is.
3.HOW DID YOU BECOME A SUGAR BABY?
"Since my family was not in a very good financial position after I went to college, I borrowed money from the bank for my tuition.At first I tried to work part-time, but I didn't make much money.Later, my friend told me that I could try sugar Baby, and the most important thing was that sugar Daddy gave me a lot of money. After some hesitation, I decided to give it a try.I started with the 'Sugar Baby'/' Sugar Daddy 'exclusive apps and websites (such as Match and Sudy) and went through a lot of trial and error.Then, By chance, I discovered certain dating sites like Sugardaddymeet and MillionaireMatch, which were full of wealthy men who would pay sugar Baby big bucks and buy them more gifts.That's where I found my daddy. He's very generous with me and doesn't ask for anything I can't accept. He respects me, so I'm happy with the relationship.I have to make sure I'm looking for a relationship that's financially beneficial so I don't waste anyone's time."
4.COULD YOU SEE YOURSELF DOING THIS WHILE HAVING A BOYFRIEND ON THE SIDE?
"I personally can't imagine myself doing this, because I know it's hard to find a boyfriend who can accept his girlfriend doing this."Of course, you can choose to do so without telling your boyfriend.It seems a little realistic, but it's not ideal for me, because I'm a very loyal person, and I don't know how I feel when I'm "dishonest."Then again, being a sugar baby isn't a full-time job for me. I'm doing it to help pay for my college education.I'm not supposed to be thinking about a boyfriend until I graduate from college. I don't think I'm in the mood for a relationship.At present, the most important thing for me is to study hard in university and find a job with a good salary after graduation.So having a boyfriend is not absolutely necessary for me."
5.DID YOU EVER MEET A SUGAR BABY WHO TRIED OUT A FEW ARRANGEMENTS, AND DECIDED THAT IT DIDN'T WORK FOR HER?
“Yes, of course!Maybe how easy this is for some people, it's actually harder than it looks!I know ex-sugar babies who can't even date their dads.Not everyone has a middle-aged, charming, kind, caring dad.You have to put up with some bad, boring dates, some really old guys, bad hygiene, etc., and be happy at the same time.Some sugar babies I know have had a bad experience and become so upset that they stop making Sugarbaby.This varies from person to person. If you need to find a Sugar Daddy because you have a hard time turning over money, you can barely accept it.But if you're comfortable with Sugar Daddy, it should be a lot easier.
6.HOW MUCH DO YOU EARN AS A SUGAR BABY?
"My income varies from time to time. Sugar daddies come and go, but some people have a fixed income.Some people give me "pocket money" (I mean, I get a regular paycheck every week), and some people get paid by the day (I mean, I only get paid when we meet).At present, I have two fathers, one with various payment methods.On a good day, I get about $800 (£560).If I'm busy sometimes and can't focus [on them] as much as I'd like, I get about $200 - $300 (£140 - £210).Again, these Numbers vary greatly depending on how engaged I was and how often I went out."
7.WHAT’S THE MOST MEMORABLE AMOUNT OF LOOT A DADDY’S GIVEN YOU BEFORE?
"At one point, I was paid $800 (560 pounds) just for staying with my dad for one night.I was with friends, but for $800, I left a few minutes later.My friends knew what I was doing, so they were very understanding and they just asked me to buy them breakfast the next day.I was really happy. I didn't expect my father to give me so much money.So it was also the most memorable trophy I got."
8.ARE MOST SUGAR DADDIES LOOKING FOR SEX OR COMPANIONSHIP?
To be honest, I think it's an equal number, but it all depends on what kind of sugar baby you are.Of course, there are benefits to both approaches.If dad wants a partner who makes him happy every time you spend time with him, he's likely to give you money (ie, pocket money) on a regular basis.If I can, I will find more partners, which is also good for my health.Another type of dad just wants to "go out" with you and give you money for every date.In general, this "date" will pay a lot more money.
In the long run, most dads want some kind of sexual preference.
The advantage of this is that you are not tied to any one dad, and you can date different dads in case you need money badly, instead of waiting for an allowance.Basically, all dads want some kind of sexual preference in the long run.Some people just want sexual favors, and some people want to be more romantic with someone, like a girlfriend, or as you say, a partner."
9.WHAT ARE THE BEST AND WORST EXPERIENCES YOU'VE HAD AS A SUGAR BABY?
"My best experience was with a dad who was really nice and just felt lonely because he was divorced.The father is generous with his money.When I was down on my luck, he would send me a little money to cheer me up.He also gave a holiday "bonus", which I thought was a bit funny.I was as attached to him as I was to my friend, and I found myself pouring out my thoughts and feelings to him, which he did.When I talked to him, I felt very calm, just as when he talked to me, we were very grateful to each other.The relationship between Sugar baby and Dad eventually ended when he decided to go back to college to do his master's degree. We lost touch with his busy schedule, but we still chat occasionally!I'm glad I didn't feel attached to him, but he's really nice.
The worst experience was with this dad, who kept pestering me until I was so bored I had to give up.He'll pop up and tell me to see him right away.I'm kind and I'll try to say "yes" if I can, but if I say "no" and say I'm busy, he'll get frustrated and won't talk to me for weeks and then suddenly come back and do the same thing.I was tired of apologizing every time I didn't say anything, so I told him I didn't want to be treated like this, and he deleted my phone number.I think you need to be firm no matter who you're dating.I don't like to be bossed around. I prefer to meet at an appointed time in advance, which gives me plenty of time to sort out my affairs."
10.DO YOU GET ANY WEIRD REQUESTS FROM SUGAR DADDIES?
"Besides the benefits of sex, the most I'm asked to do is cuddle.Many dads like to hold it in their hearts, and there's nothing to be ashamed of asking.In addition to hugging, there are requests to hold hands, hug or walk arm in arm.I don't mind doing such a thing at all.On the other hand, I have to turn down some requests, especially those fetish dads, who want me to satisfy their desires.I don't meet many of them, but they do exist, so if you're thinking about being a sugar baby, be prepared for those things."